Harlan Coben
American author
With a wistful smile.
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Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?
Failure & regret
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What song would you like played at your funeral?
Death & what remains
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What keeps you awake at night?
Daily life
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What does love feel like?
Relationships
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Identity & self
Originally asked
Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
As a charming, helpful, solicitous, generous, loving, carefree and constantly funny companion, lover and father. Some hope of that.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 December 2017 source ↗
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Ivan Lendl
Czech and American tennis player
As a guy who had fun.
Mohamed ElBaradei
Director General of the International Atomic Energy Agency, 1997-2009; Nobel Peace Prize 2005
My sister-in-law and I are working towards the same goal, through different paths: the security of the human family.
By my friends and loved ones as someone who loved ferociously and always had their back.
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Sorry, I’m British and middle class, so I’ve already apologised to virtually everybody I have ever met.
No songs, please. Don’t make a fuss.
The next morning. It rarely turns out as bad as I think it’s going to be.
Adolescent love feels like exquisite self-indulgence. Long-term love feels like a warm bath that needs a trickle of extra hot water every now and then.
An actor. Then I grew out of that and became one by default. Or sort of one: “Not really an actor”, said Michael Billington.
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