A little girl called Pat. We were nine-year-olds together and all the class made her life a misery. I knew she wanted to be my friend and I would only be friends with her if nobody else was around. I feel dreadful about that.
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
A fixed Guardian Q&A prompt asked directly across respondents and years.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 May 2022 source ↗
Others on this question
View all 209 →My wife, because she manages me and sometimes there isn’t time for niceties and we have to talk in a language that isn’t very marriage-like.
My parents, because growing up you think you know more than they do.
My younger self: I had no love for her and I was cruel and she never deserved it.
More from Lolita Chakrabarti
View profile →That my first play, Red Velvet, took so many years to be done. It took me seven years to write and then five years to get to the stage.
Lack of empathy.
More on failure & regret
- What has been your biggest disappointment? 369 answers
- If you could edit your past, what would you change? 205 answers
- What is the worst thing anyone has said to you? 124 answers
- Which moment embarrassed you most? 124 answers
- How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? Do you have a favourite failure? 77 answers
- What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it? 39 answers
Also answered this
Aidan Gillen, Martin Freeman, Dominic Cooper, Emilia Fox, Cynthia Nixon, Archie Panjabi
Search the directory for somebody in particular.
Explore further
- All failure & regret questions
- The The Q&A questionnaire — 25 questions from the same format
- Explore the archive — by field, age, era, and subject