My soon-to-be ex-wife, Amanda. I wish I’d been able to do whatever would have been necessary all the way back to keep us as a unit. Probably the worst thing I did was not tell her how miserable I was, certain that I could turn this around somehow.
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I would very, very much like to say sorry to my mother, for all the times I told her I hadn’t got the time to talk.
I say it a lot to my kids when I’ve lost my temper, and I’ll save up a big one for when they are 18.
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