Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Rebecca Lucy Taylor said elsewhere, not written here
Most of the people I dated between 23 and 33. It feels crazy to me that I ever thought that I could be anyone’s girlfriend before I figured out the things I’ve now figured out.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗

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Neil Gaiman Author of fiction, comics and screenplays
My soon-to-be ex-wife, Amanda. I wish I’d been able to do whatever would have been necessary all the way back to keep us as a unit. Probably the worst thing I did was not tell her how miserable I was, certain that I could turn this around somehow.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 October 2023 source ↗
Gabby Logan Welsh TV/radio presenter and rhythmic gymnast
I feel I have made amends, so I don’t feel that anyone is owed an apology but, if they read this and they think they are, do drop me a line.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 November 2022 source ↗
Vanessa Redgrave British actress and activist
I would very, very much like to say sorry to my mother, for all the times I told her I hadn’t got the time to talk.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 September 2018 source ↗
Martin Freeman English actor
I say it a lot to my kids when I’ve lost my temper, and I’ll save up a big one for when they are 18.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 January 2019 source ↗

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