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Alison Steadman British actress
A critic once said she wanted to lift a carpet, put me under it and hold it down until I stopped moving.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 January 2009 source ↗
In a rehearsal just after graduating from drama college, I say my lines to an older actor. He pauses, turns to the director and says: “I’m sorry, but is she going to do it like that?”
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 May 2025 source ↗

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