I don’t have a happiest; I live in the now.
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Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2016 source ↗
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I am always very happy in Sardinia with my family; I spend at least six months of the year there. Six months working and six months relaxing – I think that is a great balance.
When surrounded by my family.
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Those times when I feel equilibrium, maximum consciousness, and clarity.
I love to break rules.
Very large bugs.
Perfection is always a desired goal, but it cannot be a primary goal. Expression has to be the primary goal, because otherwise, there is no need for an actual person to be there.
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