If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Recorded Barack Obama said elsewhere, not written here
I deeply regret not having learned a musical instrument. And I regret not having focused more on Spanish when I was studying it in school. I would love to be able to speak Spanish fluently and play an instrument.

Barbara Walters, ABC News 20/20, broadcast 23 December 2011, 22 December 2011 source ↗

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Thinking that I am not enough or not beautiful the way I am. That thinking is super-dangerous.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 11 June 2018 source ↗
I wish I always had the right word in the right moment at the right time and not two hours later in my car going home.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 17 July 2025 source ↗

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Question What is something everyone in your world agrees about that you think is wrong? Values & belief
And democracy requires compromise, even when you are 100 percent right. This is hard to explain sometimes. You can be completely right, and you still are going to have to engage folks who disagree with you. If you think that the only way forward is to be as uncompromising as possible, you will feel good about yourself, you will enjoy a certain moral purity, but you're not going to get what you want.
Recorded Howard University, Washington, D.C., The White House (Obama administration archive), 7 May 2016 source ↗
Question What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it? Failure & regret
I was raised by a heroic single mom, wonderful grandparents -- made incredible sacrifices for me. … But I sure wish I had had a father who was not only present, but involved. Didn't know my dad. And so my whole life, I've tried to be for Michelle and my girls what my father was not for my mother and me. … I want to be a better father, a better husband, a better man.
Recorded Morehouse College, Atlanta, Georgia, The White House (Obama administration archive), 19 May 2013 source ↗
Question What are you most proud of? Identity & self
What makes me proudest about them is that they also don't get cynical about it. They have not assumed because their side didn't win, or because some of the values that they care about don't seem as if they were vindicated, that automatically America has somehow rejected them or rejected their values.
Recorded Christi Parsons, James S. Brady Press Briefing Room, the White House, The White House (Obama administration archive), 18 January 2017 source ↗
Question What have you come to understand about what it means to be human? Values & belief
Part of what separates us from the other creatures on earth is that we make up stories. We are storytellers. And we can tell bad stories and we can tell good stories. We can tell stories that lead to division and hate and war. Or we can tell stories that lead to cooperation and peace and progress.
Recorded Ben Tiggelaar, Forward Thinking Leadership, Amsterdam, Ben Tiggelaar, 28 September 2018 source ↗

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