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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Showing up is at least 90% of it.
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Never be rigid in your thinking, be open.
Mohamed ElBaradei
Director General of the International Atomic Energy Agency, 1997-2009; Nobel Peace Prize 2005
I think that is the most important lesson you learn in life, that you have to be ready to make a compromise. You do not compromise your principles, but you have to be ready to compromise. You have to understand that you cannot get your way 100 percent. Life is too complicated. You are not an island, and you work in a social setting, and you need to understand that you work always — at the family level, at the society level — to work out the compromise that is perceived to be fair. You don’t get 100 percent of what you want, but at least you will get the basic minimum that you require.
Stay out of other people’s business.
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Quietly somewhat funny.
My lack of foreign language skills.
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