“You’re never going to make it.” It was some guy I was dating. I had the last laugh.
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Growing up as a gay boy in a small town, you get used to people saying bad things pretty quickly.
I was going to a bar with friends and there was a line at the door. I’d been there before and asked the doorman to skip the line. He said, “Oh, I remember you, you were in Almost Famous, weren’t you?” And I said, “Yeah.” And he goes, “Yeah, get back in line.”
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