What would you like to leave your children?

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Recorded Helen Skelton said elsewhere, not written here
Good memories. When I’m gone, I want them to feel that they were always my No 1 priority.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗

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Paul Kalanithi Neurosurgeon and writer
Yet one thing cannot be robbed of her futurity: my daughter, Cady. I hope I’ll live long enough that she has some memory of me. Words have a longevity I do not. I had thought I could leave her a series of letters — but what would they really say? ... There is perhaps only one thing to say to this infant, who is all future, overlapping briefly with me, whose life, barring the improbable, is all but past. That message is simple: When you come to one of the many moments in life when you must give an account of yourself, provide a ledger of what you have been, and done, and meant to the world, do not, I pray, discount that you filled a dying man’s days with a sated joy, a joy unknown to me in all my prior years, a joy that does not hunger for more and more, but rests, satisfied.
Recorded Stanford Medicine magazine, Spring 2015, 23 February 2015 source ↗

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