They tend to say it behind my back.
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A fixed Guardian Q&A prompt asked directly across respondents and years.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Any time I’ve been racially profiled. The words might be different, but the feeling is the same.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 December 2022 source ↗
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That there is no ideal life. Disappointments sit around every corner, so enjoy the here and now.
Impatience. Though sometimes it helps!
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