Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Matthew Kelly said elsewhere, not written here
My parents, because I rather slipped from their standards on more than one occasion. And when they got older, I wish I’d been kinder and more tolerant with them.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 February 2026 source ↗

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To strangers. Living in New York, I see individuals every day who are invisible to so many. I want to say sorry that so many of us think their pain and suffering is not our own.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 May 2017 source ↗
Heidi Klum German-American model and TV host
When I was little, this boy would bully my friend and me all the time. One day, on our way home, we held him, put him to the ground and pushed his face full on into this big dog poo, and I’d like to say sorry.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 April 2016 source ↗
Bianca Jagger Nicaraguan human rights advocate
To my daughter, because she felt that I spent too much time saving other children. I would go to war zones and travel the world for human rights work, and she was missing me.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2020 source ↗
John Waters American filmmaker
To my teachers in high school - that I didn't punch them in the mouth for discouraging all my interests.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 September 2008 source ↗

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