Vanessa Redgrave
British actress and activist
To lose my fourth baby.
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Some of my choices were mistakes, so I’d have to say myself.
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Mandy Patinkin
American actor and singer
Citizens around the world blaming others for their personal disappointments, othering them, labelling them, terrorising them with hate-filled rhetoric and shutting the doors of their hearts.
Isabella Rossellini
Italian and American actress
That my children never met my parents. They were both dead by the time I became a mamma.
I assumed that once I reached some level of achievement, I would feel fixed.
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View profile →I consider myself quite a happy person. One of the most exciting times was when Sarah was born.
The easiest thing for me to say would be comfort and at ease.
I would take things a little slower.
I’ve been lucky enough to act for 35 years. The only other job I had was as a cook at a drive-in restaurant, and I enjoyed that as well.
Aside from a car, it would be a guitar. I used to have almost 100, but now I am down to 22.
There have been moments when I’d want to say sorry to both my parents for some of the stuff I’ve done.
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