In one month, two of my old prejudices were reversed. Two things that I was prejudiced against. I am now prejudiced towards, in favor of.
In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?
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What do you do when you feel creatively blocked or stuck?
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How much rewriting or revision do you do?
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What do you need to believe in order to get through the day?
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In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?
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Which writers or artists most influenced your work?
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Who do you turn to when you need advice?
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You can become a different person. That’s actually my favorite thing about Malcolm X is that he transformed himself multiple times over. He became a different person and always for the better. He kept leveling up.
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Megan Rapinoe
United States international footballer, 2006–2023
I am kneeling because I have to do something. Anything. We all do.
Abby Wambach
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You see, soccer didn't make me who I was. I brought who I was to soccer, and I get to bring who I am wherever I go. And guess what? So do you.
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Tim Cook
Chief executive of Apple
No big challenge has ever been solved and no lasting improvement has ever been achieved unless people dare to try something different. Dare to think different.
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View profile →I work on other things. There's usually more than one project brewing. I also write. I also listen to talks; I love listening to black feminist thinkers or listening to people read their poetry. What I try to do is fill my arsenal. I'll put this shit down or I'll pick something else up. Like some days, I just take whole days where I "play," and that's where I'll only do production stuff.
So I don’t ever feel the urge to kind of rewrite the work.
It requires me to be in prayer and meditation daily, or else I will literally spiral out. It’s something that I put at the forefront of my life.
Certain people really aren’t getting their emails answered. Certain people are getting their emails answered at a very deliberate and delayed rate. There are certain things that I’m passing up that people think that I should be taking, jumping at and clapping over. There’s a certain amount of refusal happening right now because I’ve got to prioritize my health and my ancestral mandates.
Yes, the Kuleshov effect. When you place one image next to another, meaning emerges. If you change one image, the meaning changes. They are these psychological landscapes that are being painted. So I find this technique and the various ways that montages can be assembled extremely helpful.
I’m calling people like Simone Leigh, Cauleen Smith—people who have sold things—asking, “What does this look like? What is this process?”
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