Ralf Little
English actor, writer, former semi-professional footballer
Simply as a man who put a smile on the face of everyone he met.
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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?
Time & hindsight
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What is the trait you most deplore in others?
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What happens when we die?
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Which moment embarrassed you most?
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What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?
Failure & regret
Originally asked
Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
A net positive from my time on Earth.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 February 2026 source ↗
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Julian Lennon
English musician, photographer, and philanthropist
For being one of the good guys.
As a nice human being who gave a shit.
She was surprisingly good at the harpsichord.
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Flashes of hubris.
Hopefully we have life in the minds and hearts of the people we interacted with.
A strong sense of being loved and a hopefulness for their life ahead.
Giving a speech in high school at a pep rally that wasn’t going so well and the dean unplugged the mic. Apparently, I was rambling and the spirit of the cafeteria was being weighed down.
I was going to a bar with friends and there was a line at the door. I’d been there before and asked the doorman to skip the line. He said, “Oh, I remember you, you were in Almost Famous, weren’t you?” And I said, “Yeah.” And he goes, “Yeah, get back in line.”
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