There have been moments when I’d want to say sorry to both my parents for some of the stuff I’ve done.
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View all 209 →When I was in my 20s, I had an uncle who took his own life. I would like a second chance to say: “Hang in there.” My parents were living abroad, and me and my sister were just too young to notice the flags.
I’ve apologised to my son, Thomas, for being absent for quite a lot of his first few years, but, as a working mother and breadwinner, I kind of had to be. I like to think I’ve made up for it.
To my father, for the time that was lost when we weren’t getting along. We were able to reconcile a few months before he passed away five years ago.
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Paul Irons, the deputy head at my school, Fernwood comprehensive. He was an inspiration, and still is.
Christmas Day in Nottingham. I am happiest when I am with all of my family, and last year Jonny and I got engaged.
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