I am consistently disappointed in the music industry. Every time someone says that I’m underrated, that feels extremely disappointing because I’ve done my end of the bargain.
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I am consistently disappointed in the music industry. Every time someone says that I’m underrated, that feels extremely disappointing because I’ve done my end of the bargain.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 November 2025 source ↗
Not winning the Mercury.
Not going to the World Cup in 1986 and not going to the World Cup in 1998.
The Mona Lisa – I preferred the frame.
Without naming names, some people I’ve put a lot of faith and trust and love into.
I would not like to know what my total massage budget is.
Big, shy, angry.
At a pub in Rotherham. I was a really bad waitress and I ended up being demoted to chopping the potatoes and I even got fired from that.
People who can’t wait to argue.
I never finished The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir.
I’d have gone solo sooner.
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