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Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?

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Anne Enright

Novelist and short-story writer

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I was not great with my mother-in-law, who was a very gentle woman. I thought she would be an uninvited part of my life for ever, but she died early and I wished I had been more open and patient.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 September 2024 source ↗

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Jacqueline Wilson English novelist
A little girl called Pat. We were nine-year-olds together and all the class made her life a misery. I knew she wanted to be my friend and I would only be friends with her if nobody else was around. I feel dreadful about that.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 May 2022 source ↗
Dominic West English actor
To Mark Smith, a boy we bullied at primary school. I’ve always felt terrible about it.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 29 December 2018 source ↗
Gabby Logan Welsh TV/radio presenter and rhythmic gymnast
I feel I have made amends, so I don’t feel that anyone is owed an apology but, if they read this and they think they are, do drop me a line.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 November 2022 source ↗

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Question What trait do you most dislike in other people? Values & belief
I find it really interesting the way people are drawn to power, usually male power, sometimes in its dark mode. I wonder what they get from it. My experience of bastards is that there is very little material benefit gained from being in their company, though you feel there might be, any minute. Or you get something for a while and then the polarity switches. It’s a huge con. Trump made the mechanism clear – in this, I think he is a timely figure.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 September 2024 source ↗

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