I would be richer, I’d have beaten Mrs Thatcher’s ban on women in the cabinet, and I would be a dame.
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I would have gone to my singing lessons at Guildhall.
As I look back on those days, it’s just like a dream. The only thing that bothered me was that we waited so long to make this protest and to let it be known wherever we go that all of us should be free and equal and have all opportunities that others should have.
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Sacrifice the self and you will gain it. Serve the self and you will lose it.
Human, evolving and faithful.
Leaving the stage from a panic attack in my 20s. Hearing the audience angry.
Earnest, driven, Gemini.
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