What is the most important lesson life has taught you?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

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That materialistic things will not make you happy.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 January 2023 source ↗

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Edmund Hillary Mountaineer and explorer; first ascent of Everest, 1953
I think motivation is the single most important factor in any sort of success. Physical fitness is important, technical skill is important, and maybe even the desire for money is important in some respects. But a sort of basic motivation, the desire to succeed, to stretch yourself to the utmost is the most important factor. Certainly in the field of exploration and activity, it’s the thing that makes the difference between someone who does really well and someone who doesn’t.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview source ↗
That you get out of life what you put in. When you grow up on a farm you literally reap what you sow.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗
Jo Nesbø Norwegian writer and musician
The world doesn’t consist of bad and good people; it consists of people seeing things in a different way.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 April 2026 source ↗

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