Oti Mabuse
South African dancer
When I realised that I was meant to be a dancer, aged 19.
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
Values & belief
Question
If you had only one day left to live, how would you spend it — and what would you deliberately avoid doing?
Death & what remains
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
Asked in 52 of the 131 consecutive instalments of The Guardian's The Q&A harvested on 2026-08-29.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Right now. It's a beautiful thing to find yourself "the wrong side of 40" and more in love with life than ever. I never tell people this publicly as they wrongly assume the only valid creative state is that of the cliche of the tubercular, tortured artist coughing up blood in his garret.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 9 September 2011 source ↗
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Shirley Hughes
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Wandering around with my sketchbook in some lovely Italian town.
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Sydney mardi gras, 1993.
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Former British politician, broadcaster and writer
I am happy now.
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