Nothing. If I’m worried or upset or tormented, I go to sleep quickly and easily, to find welcome oblivion.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
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Nothing. If I’m worried or upset or tormented, I go to sleep quickly and easily, to find welcome oblivion.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
The light in my neighbours’ kitchen because they still haven’t put a blind up.
Anything from the concept of human mortality to a faux pas I made at a party in 2005.
My wife cleaning.
Not being at peace with myself, in spite of an ongoing lifetime effort to try to calm down and accept that, no matter what, I did the best I could.
In 1993, making love on the beach of a deserted island in the Bahamas.
Always saying yes to people. For example, I’m doing this.
The exact median middle-aged black woman in the US. If hard work guaranteed success, she’d be the most successful person on the planet. But she isn’t, yet she keeps on going.
Appearing on US breakfast radio. I heard the DJ say that after the news we would hear from the author Lincoln Child. I had to choose between making a guy with a mixed-up PR release look like an idiot or pretending to be Lincoln. I pretended.
I’m from Birmingham. I’m not afraid of things. Things are afraid of me.
More than I can, sadly. I led the softest of lives in the softest of times, and my daughter will face sterner challenges.
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