Matthew Modine
American actor
I would deplore feeling deplorable about myself.
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Identity & self
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Doomscrolling on my phone.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 December 2025 source ↗
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View all 243 →Oversensitivity.
Self-centredness.
Flashes of hubris.
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Those who create the doom.
I’ve got no kids, but I’d like us to leave a planet for everyone’s children.
Being misrepresented by a Sun journalist 12 years ago.
Forest Green Rovers, my football team, getting relegated.
Deputy leader Mothin Ali gave a speech at conference talking about growing up in poverty and the effect it had on his family. It was incredibly powerful and I had tears streaming from my eyes.
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