When Brad and I got married. We had to struggle for it. It involved a nationwide speaking tour, lobbying Congress and campaigning intensely. We were the first couple to get our marriage licence in West Hollywood.
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What has been your biggest disappointment?
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Playing ping pong in LA.
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When I'm on set, filming.
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Since my daughter Minty was born.
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