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A verbatim standing question in The Guardian's rotating Q&A questionnaire, documented across respondents and years.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
People who can’t read my mind.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2014 source ↗
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Bullying, whether face to face or online.
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Talking in cliches. We have the most economic, resonant and versatile language in the world, yet so many people use it in a dull and boring way.
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That I take this questionnaire too seriously and reveal my crimes and misdemeanors, or I treat this questionnaire too flippantly and bring shame to the House of Proust.
Stealing from the elderly and then acting real cocky about it.
A love of laughter and a shared belief that life is a dream.
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