Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Victoria Pendleton said elsewhere, not written here
Lots of people, mainly for being so absent from their lives while I was concentrating on sport. I’d also like to say sorry to my dad’s mum, because, aged four, I told her she was the worst cook in the world.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 July 2017 source ↗

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Alex Jones American far-right conspiracy theorist
An ex-boyfriend who, looking back, I lost patience with. Now we know more about mental health, I think that was at the root of it; I am sorry I didn’t understand it at the time.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 August 2021 source ↗
To my cousin P, who was one of my best mates growing up. We lost him when we were in our 20s and, before he passed away, I was so busy with this stupid thing called life and a brand new kid. He called me and said: “Bro, I’m not feeling right.” And I said: “Bro, you’ve never been feeling right.” And it always sits on my head that if me or somebody else had been paying more attention maybe things would have worked out different. He had extremely rare bowel cancer and died five weeks later at 27.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 December 2025 source ↗
Michael Stipe American singer
Anyone I slept with before the age of 27, because I was a selfish, cold-ass bitch.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2020 source ↗

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