Those mad thoughts. Did you turn off the air fryer? Have I booked my plane for tomorrow?
The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 September 2023 source ↗
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Those mad thoughts. Did you turn off the air fryer? Have I booked my plane for tomorrow?
The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 September 2023 source ↗
Now that’s what happens when people go crazy, where the only thing that matters is whose camp are you in, whose side are you on, what tribe do you belong to — where facts and discussions become irrelevant. And it made me wonder whether the way I was raised and all the listening and storytelling skills I learned as a boy would even be relevant today. They’d be good if you’re in. They’re still really important to getting anything done, but if you live in an environment where everything is a litmus test and everything is a-hundred-to-nothing, and the only thing that matters is feeding your resentment, and anger blinds you to answers, and being very sanctimonious somehow proves your sincerity and authenticity, it’s really hard to get anything done. It’s a whole new challenge now, and that’s why — and the Russians knew that. You know, that’s when they get in here and start fooling with all these politics. They realize you just sort of load it up because once people take sides based on what tribe they’re in then there’s no difference in facts and fiction. There’s no difference in truth and lies. It’s just, does this confirm what side you’re on? And you can’t run a democracy that way. It is utterly impossible to preserve democracy.
Not much. Given that I’m up and active most mornings around 5am, I’ve had enough of everything by 9pm.
Auditions the next day.
Online shopping for clothes.
It’s not all soft focus and wheat fields. Love songs can be about hate, fear, envy, lust and anger, because that’s part of love as well.
Apathy, either from an audience, the people around me or myself.
A 28ft motorboat, which sat in the water for two years because I was so busy working.
I stopped drinking 18 or 19 years ago, and in an argument someone who will remain nameless said: “Oh just go and have a drink.” It was nasty.
Content, assured, indecisive.
Sitting on the fence – I will do anything to avoid confrontation.
Pauline Black, Cyndi Lauper, Esther Freud, Peter Sarsgaard, Bozoma Saint John, Bill Clinton
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