J-Lo, a foreign correspondent and, at uni, I assumed that someone would tap me on the shoulder and ask me to be in MI6, but it never happened.
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Picking myself back up after very tricky times and trying again.
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Impatience. I’m not very good at waiting around or dealing with things that aren’t moving at a pace that I want them to.
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