To anyone I have lost touch with. It happened purely by accident as life took over.
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View all 209 →The people I never thanked for what they selflessly gave me in my career; when I was younger I just took it for granted.
My kids, for not being around much.
Katy Perry. I hired a Russell Brand lookalike as a joke for the radio, and she thought it was actually him. When she realised it wasn’t, she burst into tears. She was still married to him, but I didn’t take into account that there were things going on that we didn’t know.
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As a decent human being.
A little bit more self-confidence.
Procrastination.
A few weeks ago, walking on the beach in Anglesey with my dogs and my husband.
I’ve never got through Ulysses.
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