Pedro Almodóvar
Film director
Like John Huston, after shooting The Dead.
How would you like to die?
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Identity & self
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What is the trait you most deplore in others?
Values & belief
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What do you value most in your friends?
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What is the thing you are best at that nobody watching can see?
Craft & work
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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
Identity & self
Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
A fixed final question in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire, repeated verbatim across respondent pages.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Does it make a difference? You’re dead.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 9 November 2012 source ↗
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Sally Mann
Photographer
Quickly, without warning, maybe even in my sleep, and while we're putting in requests: before I lose my mind and my ability to gallop across the countryside on horseback.
Ina Garten
Cookery writer and shop owner
I don’t care as long as Jeffrey and I go together and we end up in a big suite with a view of the ocean.
Diana Athill
Editor and memoirist
That process depends on what you are dying of. The body can fail in ways that are extremely distressing, slowly and painfully, demanding much stoicism, or it can switch off with little more than a flash of dizziness. In my family we seem to have been uncommonly lucky in that respect. There was the 82-year-old uncle who was at a meet of the Norwich Stag Hounds, enjoying a drink with friends, when crash! And he fell off his horse, dead. There was the cousin in her eighties who fell dead as she was filling a kettle to make tea, and the other cousin, 98, who slipped away so gently that the sister who was holding her hand didn’t realise that she had stopped breathing.
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Being with my best friend, who’s a girl.
Guys who use the word “snot.”
That they get it.
My most important rule is one that sums up the 10: if it sounds like writing, I rewrite it.
Convince myself that walking two miles a day isn’t boring.
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