Kiefer Sutherland
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The easiest thing for me to say would be comfort and at ease.
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Connection, warmth, somebody you can trust and, quite happily, say nothing to.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 December 2025 source ↗
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Julian Lloyd Webber
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Frightening, exhilarating and all-consuming.
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Like coming home.
Like getting out of the right side of the bed every morning, even when you don’t.
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That they were loved.
Six months ago, I decided to move house. I got a skip, cleared everything out and then thought: “Why am I doing this?” So I remained, and I’m glad I did.
A garden chair from the Chelsea flower show. It was almost the price of a small crappy car.
To be inquisitive.
To have made people healthier and happier.
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