The inability to laugh before 11 a.m.
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The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 June 2025 source ↗
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View all 243 →Any type of indecision.
My default will always be to go for the worst-case scenario and that is something that I am unlearning.
Self-destruction.
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View profile →My first week in New York in 1978, when I was about to start as a writer at Time. And my first week in the south of France after retiring from my job of 25 years as editor of Vanity Fair.
Be generous and kind. Honestly, those two things did everything for me.
“Didn’t you used to be Graydon Carter?”
That time I congratulated a waitress on being pregnant.
The metabolism I had in my 20s.
With dozens upon dozens of beautiful women weeping over my casket.
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