Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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My first girlfriend when I left drama school. I was a bit of tart.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 November 2019 source ↗

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Back in the day, when comedy was crueller, my monologues were full of terrible jokes about people, and you can’t apologise because then you’re asking people to forgive you. Your punishment is to walk around knowing you said these horrible things.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 April 2026 source ↗
Gloria Steinem Writer and feminist organiser
I behaved badly with two old lovers. Years later, when I took one to lunch to apologise, it made it worse.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 4 March 2017 source ↗
Douglas Stuart Scottish fashion designer and novelist
To my younger self. I was incredibly self-loathing and self-doubting, and I’m still undoing that damage 30 years later.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 April 2023 source ↗

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