My parents. We didn’t realise how absolutely desperate they were when we left Germany, because my father couldn’t earn anything. A letter turned up fairly recently in which he said, “We’ve been through a terrible time because Julia [my mother] never stopped talking about suicide and not just for herself, but to take the children with her.”
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View all 209 →There have been moments when I’d want to say sorry to both my parents for some of the stuff I’ve done.
Myself. I have never been harder on anyone else.
My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
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View profile →Their inability to deal with my disorganisation.
My children ending up anything like me.
My wife when I tried out some new material on her, said: “I’m sure the people who like you would like that.”
The arcade game, Guitar Hero. I’ve got the full unit in my house. It’s so sad.
A comedian or rapper. You can tell by the way I’m dressed that I’m a frustrated rapper.
I was once walking through Edinburgh with someone in the industry. I was quite drunk and I slowly wet myself.
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