Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Romesh Ranganathan said elsewhere, not written here
When I was 17 I launched into a rant at my dad about what I thought of him. We never spoke about it again and then he passed away. I would love to say sorry to him.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 August 2024 source ↗

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Judith Kerr British writer and illustrator
My parents. We didn’t realise how absolutely desperate they were when we left Germany, because my father couldn’t earn anything. A letter turned up fairly recently in which he said, “We’ve been through a terrible time because Julia [my mother] never stopped talking about suicide and not just for herself, but to take the children with her.”
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 18 May 2019 source ↗
Kiefer Sutherland British and Canadian actor
There have been moments when I’d want to say sorry to both my parents for some of the stuff I’ve done.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 September 2017 source ↗
Shirley Manson Scottish singer and songwriter; lead vocalist of Garbage
Myself. I have never been harder on anyone else.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 May 2022 source ↗
My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 November 2024 source ↗

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