My difficulty to forgive.
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I’d rather name one for someone else. I’m egomaniacal.
Maxi-multitasking.
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When it’s just us as a family on our island hideaway in Wales.
Small things make me anxious – like social things – but I have no big fears because I have faith in my heart.
Becoming a father.
Holding the hand of some random lady at an airport who I mistook for my wife, Shara.
He knew where life was to be found.
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