I can’t deal with any level of stress.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2018 source ↗
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View all 243 →Always trying to turn things into a joke.
Self-denigration, an old strategy for extorting praise from people. (“I am a terrible person.” “No, you’re a wonderful person and we all love you.”)
I would deplore feeling deplorable about myself.
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View profile →Thinking that I am not enough or not beautiful the way I am. That thinking is super-dangerous.
At the SAG awards in 2016. I remember going into that night saying to myself, “I might not be here again; let me be fully in the moment.” The cast of Orange Is the New Black won the acting-ensemble award for the second year in a row, and I was there with a man I truly loved. That night was everything I had always dreamed about.
Cuddling in bed on a Sunday morning with the man I love. Also, applause and standing ovations.
Mean-spiritedness and the inability to set and respect boundaries.
Leontyne Price gives me life. She broke racial barriers with inimitable poise, grace, and excellence, as well as unbelievable focus and vision.
Being homeless.
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