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Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
When I’m feeling lazy and I sleep in too much.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, May 2024 source ↗
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I still say yes to too many things.
James Norton
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I have a habit of sabotaging the moment in pursuit of perfection.
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View profile →Jane Goodall. I got the chance to meet her a few years ago, and it was the thrill of a lifetime. When I was little, I wanted to be her. I thought she had the coolest life in the world.
Kindness and laughter. If someone makes me laugh, I’m halfway in love.
My wedding day, and when my children were first placed in my arms.
Cruelty, and also general rudeness and unkindness. I’ve always told my children: Don’t ever find entertainment in someone else’s discomfort.
Losing a loved one.
My kids are in the house. I’ve been gardening in my vegetable garden. I have absolutely zero obligations or calls to return. Now I’m fixing dinner with music playing and having a glass of wine.
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