In dreams, but that’s about it.
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View all 209 →I’ve been to two postmortems in real life, and spent the last 14 years talking about death at work – so, pretty close.
It’s nearly happened twice, each time after an operation.
One of these days I will encounter what Henry James called on his deathbed “the distinguished thing.” I will not be conscious of the moment of passing. In this life I have already been declared dead. It wasn’t so bad. After the first ruptured artery, the doctors thought I was finished. My wife, Chaz, said she sensed that I was still alive and was communicating to her that I wasn’t finished yet. She said our hearts were beating in unison, although my heartbeat couldn’t be discovered. She told the doctors I was alive, they did what doctors do, and here I am, alive.
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View profile →As someone who made people laugh, introduced them to good music and wasn’t too much of a pain in the arse.
Working in a bottle factory, which lasted one day, and the Radio 1 breakfast show.
This was said about me in a Radio 1 focus group: “I don’t pay my licence fee to hear scummy northerners.”
A sense of what’s right, a few quid and some nice paintings.
Having three great daughters, having been on the radio for nearly 50 years and not being dead.
A drummer in a famous band or an astronaut.
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