RJ
“You’re not funny.” I fully understand why my comedy might not be right for everyone, but don’t tell me, get on with your day!
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 December 2022 source ↗
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What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you?Originally asked
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