I had to ask people about this, because I couldn’t think of anything, and the consensus seems to be: a general lack of self-awareness.
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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 June 2026 source ↗
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View all 243 →Always saying yes to people. For example, I’m doing this.
Lack of confidence masquerading as perfectionism.
The inability to laugh before 11 a.m.
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View profile →Recently, as people began to understand what I am trying to do in my painting.
A detective. Or a writer. Or a poet.
As a nice old man.
In the 1950s I went to the Chelsea Arts Club’s New Year’s Eve ball at the Royal Albert Hall dressed as a Christmas pudding, with swimming trunks under my costume and holly in my hair.
Trying to exercise authority over one.
In 2001, when my eldest son died.
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