Charlie Higson: Who deserves an apology from you, and for what? — FLAPSS

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Who deserves an apology from you, and for what?

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Charlie Higson

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All the kids I didn’t reply to who’ve written lovely letters about my books.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

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Jason Isaacs English actor

Anybody who met me before I was 30, because I was a drug addict, and all my relationships were experienced through that prism.

Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 November 2020 source ↗

Mo Farah British track and field athlete

Probably my wife, because sometimes I do crazy things.

Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 April 2019 source ↗

It would be my mum. She was a terrible alcoholic and I spent a lot of my time kind of hating her but, in the past five years, I realised why she did what she did and I could forgive.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2025 source ↗

Aidan Gillen Irish actor

Teachers at my school, for being such a smartarse.

Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 May 2017 source ↗

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Question What disappointment has stayed with you longest? Failure & regret

I’m a classic remoaner.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

Question Which book do you still mean to read, and why has it stayed on your list? Taste & recommendation

I used to give a fantastic talk about Frankenstein and Dracula, but I’ve never been able to finish either book.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

Question How would you sum yourself up in three words? Identity & self

Middle-class wanker.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

Question Excluding property, what is the most expensive thing you have ever bought? Money & investment

Three mature palm trees. We restored a property in Italy that had been derelict and I needed to make it look established as quickly as I could.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

Question When were you most embarrassed? Failure & regret

I’ve shat myself in public three times. It’s never quite as bad as you fear.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

Question Which trait in yourself do you like least? Identity & self

I can be horribly smug and conceited, and yet always in the back of my mind is the thought that things could go terribly wrong at any moment.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 October 2025 source ↗

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