I’d change my mindset and not be so hard on myself, and impart the knowledge that other people’s intentions aren’t always as well-meaning as my own.
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I would have spent more time with my parents. I did see them often, but you don’t realise how much you’ll miss someone or something until it’s gone.
I would take away fear.
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I made a suicide attempt at 12 or 13 years old.
That I can’t write.
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