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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?

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Samira Ahmed British journalist and writer
When I was a 26-year-old news correspondent, the head of BBC news gathering, Chris Cramer, refused to let me take up a six-month attachment on the foreign affairs programme Correspondent. He said: “I think it’s too soon; you could do it later.” He’d never have said that to a man.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 January 2022 source ↗
Eleanor Tomlinson English actress
Losing out on a role, any role. I get so invested. I can take rejection, but only when useful feedback is given.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 May 2024 source ↗
I spent my life searching for family. I travelled around the world to look each one of them in the eye. Unfortunately, but understandably, for most of them, I am their biggest disappointment.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 October 2023 source ↗

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Question When were you most embarrassed? Failure & regret
I have a deep-rooted fear of being in trouble. I once tried to sneak into the back of a photography exhibition with my husband when one of our kids was in a pushchair. We’d arrived late and he suggested we go in through the gift shop and see the last room. As we poked our heads round the door, the security guard noticed us. I shouted, “That man’s trying to get in!”, then ran away.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 September 2024 source ↗

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