Now. I’ve learned to adjust my expectations to reality better than when I was 20 or 10.
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In the hospital giving birth to my second daughter with my first daughter right there in the room as it was happening. I don’t remember any pain. I just remember feeling more alive and full of fierce mama bear love than at any other point in my life.
Driving my convertible over the Bay Bridge when I was 18, listening to Thinking of You by Sister Sledge.
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Not to have been joined by more Green MPs … yet.
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