What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Recorded Munroe Bergdorf said elsewhere, not written here
Apart from stuff on social media, an ex-partner telling me I’m unlovable.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 July 2025 source ↗

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My wife when I tried out some new material on her, said: “I’m sure the people who like you would like that.”
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 August 2024 source ↗
I stopped drinking 18 or 19 years ago, and in an argument someone who will remain nameless said: “Oh just go and have a drink.” It was nasty.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 September 2023 source ↗
A review of Phèdre said – because I was quite large at the time – Toby Stephens’s Hippolytus needs to get on a StairMaster.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 June 2026 source ↗

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