When I think of my mother. After my father left, she became an alcoholic and wallowed in resentment.
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Reading aloud the last two pages of a book about Montaigne by Sarah Bakewell. It was about his relationship with his cat, and a letter to a friend whose dog had died. It’s about letting the unexpected happen to you, and how that can really be what life is about.
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To work in a dry cleaner’s.
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Too many of my friends, family and peers dying.
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