A house in west London.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
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View all 44 →More than I can, sadly. I led the softest of lives in the softest of times, and my daughter will face sterner challenges.
That they were loved.
A great education.
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Having more time to spend with Vic and the kids.
Vic, my wife, has over the years reduced my impatience, but anybody who has been in a traffic jam with me will know that she hasn’t completed the task yet.
When I was appointed director of public prosecutions, I had a government car and visited the security services. When I came out, I got into the back of what I thought was my car, but it was somebody’s private car and they told me in no uncertain terms to get out. I had to reverse out with as much dignity as I could, with the head of security services watching.
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