Being with animals.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Barbara Walters, ABC News 20/20, broadcast 23 December 2011, 22 December 2011 source ↗
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View all 167 →A verdant landscape filled with beautiful animals of all kinds, harp music, cumulus clouds in a bright-blue sky, and happy people conversing pleasantly, sipping cold sake from homemade bamboo cups.
Laughter and peace of mind.
A peaceful, joyous time in the world…or in my head.
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