What has been your biggest disappointment?

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Recorded Sarah Perry said elsewhere, not written here
My A-level results in 1998. I flunked my history A-level and lost my place at Cambridge. It broke my heart for years; now I’m really glad, because I pull out the whole “I went to a polytechnic” thing. But at the time for a teenager who was rather pleased with herself, it was absolutely devastating.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 March 2026 source ↗

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I thought that I would become more mature about certain things, and it didn’t happen.
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I did a TV job, Ain’t Misbehavin’, purely for the money. I was disappointed with myself and, inevitably, incredibly unhappy.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 January 2019 source ↗

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Question What is your worst intellectual habit? Craft & work
I’ve a deplorable tendency to become entrenched in my own prejudices: If I dislike an artist, an art form, or an idea (jazz, ballet, certain kinds of fiction) it is extremely difficult to get me to change my mind, and all evidence presented to the contrary will be discarded and very likely mocked. Of course, nobody suffers but me.
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Question Whom do you read even though you disagree with them? Attention & the world
I often hate-read the Daily Mail. It’s the worst of media and the worst of mankind distilled into one publication and in some ways it feels a moral duty to be familiar with it. Too often we all bolt ourselves into an echo chamber, which I think lacks courage, and can lead to a kind of intellectual conceitedness.
Recorded Sean Illing, Vox, “9 questions” series, 26 August 2017 source ↗

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