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The rejection that I have received from my own people.
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Annie Mac
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Not getting into drama college in Dublin. I cut all my hair off as a sort of self-punishment for being crap.
Olivia Colman
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As a child, I thought, "Once I am a grown-up, there will be no more fear, no more worries", and it turns out that's not true.
My A-level results in 1998. I flunked my history A-level and lost my place at Cambridge. It broke my heart for years; now I’m really glad, because I pull out the whole “I went to a polytechnic” thing. But at the time for a teenager who was rather pleased with herself, it was absolutely devastating.
Nicholas Hoult
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I don't really have disappointments, because I build myself up for rejection.
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A home. I just bought one on Long Island. My first piece of property.
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The male Whitney Houston.
I’m trying to figure out how to receive unconditional love. That’s hard to do when you’ve never really had it, so I’m trying to navigate that.
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