The question

What do you value most in your friends?

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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.

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Akio Toyoda

President of Toyota Motor Corporation, 2009–2023; chairman from 2023

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Having said that, feeling isolated is tough. In those times, you need a place where you can be by yourself, and friends. Company colleagues won’t do it because they’re generally self-centered (laughs). You need friends who have nothing to do with the company.

Toyota Group genba leader, Toyota Group genba-leader dialogue, Toyota Times, 29 February 2024 source ↗

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Pelé Brazilian footballer; three-time World Cup winner
Loyalty. Most of my friends have been around me for decades.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 April 2014 source ↗
Terry Gross Radio interviewer
Their willingness to put up with my endless explanations about why I can’t see them because I’m under deadline.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 September 2012 source ↗

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Question Who helps you get things done? Craft & work
Having said that, feeling isolated is tough. In those times, you need a place where you can be by yourself, and friends. Company colleagues won’t do it because they’re generally self-centered (laughs). You need friends who have nothing to do with the company.
Recorded Toyota Group genba leader, Toyota Group genba-leader dialogue, Toyota Times, 29 February 2024 source ↗
Question What is the biggest obstacle you have faced professionally? Craft & work
I was raised not to dream. I was told to live for others, so I don’t have many dreams, but I face countless obstacles and challenges. Arrogance, conflict, criticism, insults, inaction. At Toyota, there was so much rationalizing of why things couldn’t be done. As if doing nothing was the best option.
Recorded overseas dealer representatives and guests, Akio Toyoda’s Juku, Toyota Times, 14 November 2023 source ↗
Question Which teacher, parent, coach or friend most made you who you are, and what did you learn from them? Relationships
Driving 24 hours with rivals at Nürburgring, the world's toughest circuit, presented many more challenges than driving a test course for three years. Naruse always said that ‘Roads make cars.’ The race is punishing, but it forges better machines. Nürburgring is where I learned that ‘the road makes the car.’
Recorded Toyota Times, 31 March 2020 source ↗

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